Boris Frederic Cecil Tay-Natey Ofuatey-Kodjoe was born in Vienna, Austria
on March 8, 1973 to Eric, a physician from Ghana, and Ursula, a psychologist
from Germany which is where he was raised along with his siblings, Patrick
and Nadja.
While attending Virginia Commonwealth University on a tennis scholarship,
the striking, 6'3” student-athlete was spotted by a talent
scout and signed to a contract with the Ford Modeling Agency. After appearing
in ad campaigns for Ralph Lauren, Perry Ellis, Yves Saint Laurent and
The Gap, Boris blossomed into a rarity, one of the world's few male
supermodels. So, it's no surprise that he would one day be named
one of the 50 Most Beautiful People in the World by People Magazine.
In 2000, he turned his attention to acting, making his big screen debut
in Love & Basketball, following that up with well-received
appearances in everything from Brown Sugar to
The Gospel to Madea's Family Reunion. On Broadway,
he's worked opposite James Earl Jones and Phylicia Rashad in Cat on
a Hot Tin Roof.
On TV, he was cast in the hit series Soul Food as Damon Carter,
a role for which he would land a trio of NAACP Image Award nominations.
While doing the hit show, he fell head over heels in love with his attractive
co-star, Nicole Ari Parker, and by 2005 the inseparable pair would marry
back in his hometown, Gundelfingen, Germany. They now have two kids, Sophie
Tei-Naaki Lee Kodjoe, 3, and Nicolas Neruda Kodjoe, 1. Despite being quite
the power couple, they've decided to make their home away from the
hustle and bustle of Hollywood in relatively-sedate Atlanta.
Here, Boris talks about all of the above and his latest movie, All
About Us, a romantic dramedy about a Hollywood couple who decide
to settle down in Mississippi after shooting a movie there, rather than
return to L.A.
KW: What interested
you in doing All about Us?
BK: First and foremost
was the script, because I rarely got a chance to consider playing a role
like that; a regular family guy who is basically trying to balance his
career goals with his obligations to his family. It's a very heartwarming
story with some really interesting, fleshed-out characters. When I had
a meeting with the director, Christine Swanson and her husband Michael,
I admired their passion for what they were doing. I think it's always
a blessing to get to work with people who have that fire about what they're
doing.
KW: The script
was semi-autobiographical. So, it must have been interesting to be acting
out the filmmakers' life story.
BK: Yeah, it was interesting.
I talked with Michael about the character, and about his path and his
journey. And it was fun to sort of associate certain things that he went
through with things that I've been through in my life. For instance,
I had a young daughter too, so there were many parallels that I could
draw on. It was funny, because we were different people, yet all young
fathers obviously go through some of the same stuff, and have some of
the same concerns and anxieties. So, the process was really cool to me.
KW: You and Nicole left L.A. for
Atlanta. How did you decide to settle in Atlanta?
BK: We never wanted to
raise the kids in Hollywood. We wanted to be in an environment that spoke
to us, culturally. That's how we chose Atlanta and found our dream
home. Also, I have family coming from Europe, and her family is in Baltimore,
so the choice was very practical at the same time.
KW: I know you are quad-lingual:
German, English, French and Spanish. What languages are you going to teach
your children?
BK: Well, they speak three,
right now: obviously English, plus German and Spanish. Our nanny is Guatemalan,
and she only speaks Spanish to them. And we speak German to them.
KW: I heard that your mother is
Jewish. Is that true?
BK: Well, by blood, yeah.
My grandmother's part Jewish, which makes my mother and me Jewish,
by blood. But we weren't raised in the Jewish faith. I remember
my mother teaching me from the age of about 3 or 4 that we had to find
our own way based on many different religions, that there were many different
doctrines but that they all had the same purpose. I always remember that,
because it was so simple, and so poignant and deep at the same time. I
try to apply that now and expose my kids to many different ideas and philosophies,
so they can find their own way.
KW: Did you lose
any relatives in the Holocaust?
BK: Yeah, on my mother's
side, my maternal great-grandmother. It was ironic in a way, because my
grandmother wasn't pure-blooded Aryan, and therefore she wasn't
considered a member of the master race. But she got pregnant by my grandfather
who was 200% German. So, it was quite a tumultuous time for her, because
they had to hide her for her to survive the second World War.
KW: Did she have
any close calls?
BK: Yeah, she told me that
someone once reported her, but she was lucky that when the SS came to
investigate and found her hiding in a back room, one of the officers was
in a good mood and didn't arrest her. She said those kind of experiences
occurred frequently. It was a time of sheer terror and no one knew what
was going on, and everyone knew somebody who had suddenly gone missing
for no reason.
KW: I hope she's
writing her memoirs.
BK: Yeah, I'm going
to help her write it. She had some quite interesting experiences. And
then later in her life her daughter brought home an African from Ghana,
which didn't go over so well with my grandfather. He kicked them
out of the house until I was born. They went back with me when I was a
couple months old, and said, “Look, either you accept us, or you'll
never see us again.” And at that moment he made a 180 degree turn
and accepted me from that moment on.
KW: Wow, you're
going to have to write an autobiography, too.
BK: We all lived under
the same roof. He had lost both of his arms in the war from a Russian
hand grenade. From when I was 4, I would shave him in the morning and
feed him breakfast every day.
KW: Did you have
to deal with racism as a child? You must have been one of very few
non-white kids in the neighborhood?
BK: Me and my brother were
always the only black kids. Racism is universal, but it's very different
in different cultures. Where I grew up, racism was more about ignorance
and a lack of knowledge than a controlled and focused prejudice. So, I
was subjected to the type of racism where people called me names, but
I had a lot of great friends, too. Overall, it was a great environment
to grow up in. The place I was raised was in the Black Forest and looks
like The Sound of Music. We had a great childhood, full of fun
and outdoor adventure. It was very sane and well-rounded. My mother always
told us we were perfect the way we were, and that we wouldn't have to
worry about what people said because there are just a lot of ignoramuses
in the world, and that you will encounter them until the day you die.
That was her approach, and now when I look back, I can really appreciate
it.
KW: Barack Obama
also had a white mother and an African father. What do you think of him?
BK: That's just one
of the aspects of him that I find intriguing. I think that he's
an incredible and powerful man, very charismatic and intelligent. He also
has great integrity and pride, and loves the country. I believe he's
someone who will not only improve America internally in terms of the economy,
healthcare, education, the environment and Social Security, but also repair
the country's reputation which has suffered around the world over
the past eight years. He's someone who I believe can sit down with
potential allies on the international level and try to make the world
a better place for everyone. So, I'm supporting him wholeheartedly.
I hope that people will wake up and take the country back. It's
hard to believe that we have a president who could officially deny the
fact that the world is being affected by global warming. It's embarrassing.
KW: What's
it like being named one of the 50 Most Beautiful People in the World?
Has it changed your life?
BK: [Laughs] That's
hilarious. No, it hasn't changed my life at all. It's one
of those things, like the tabloids, that you can't really take seriously.
Obviously, I'm very flattered, but that's as far as it goes.
It's a nice thing, but I can't take any credit for it. I don't
wake up and go, “Woo-hoo! I'm one of the 50 Most Beautiful!
Yeah!” There are a lot of things that are much more important, like
being a husband and father. I've been blessed with a great wife
and amazing children who have changed my life. It's not necessarily
a walk in the park every day, but it's absolutely the most rewarding
gift ever.
KW: How was it
playing Brick on Broadway in Cat on a Hot Tin Roof?
BK: It was a dream come
true, getting to play one of the significant roles in one of the most
significant classics. I was honored and humbled by the experience. Everybody
was so supportive, James Earl Jones, Phylicia Rashad, Debbie Allen, Anika
Noni Rose and Giancarlo Esposito. And the crowd response was great, everything
was amazing.
KW: Is there any
question nobody asks you that you wish somebody would ask?
BK: What nobody ever asks
me is how difficult it was to come to sound like this, probably because
they all assume I'm African-American.
KW: True, your
American accent has no traces of German. So, how difficult was it to sound
like this? Did you study English in Germany?
BK: I learned it here.
I took classes, had a dialect coach, and watched a lot of MTV. When I
prepare for a part, I still have to figure out the appropriate accent
and cadence.
KW: How do you want to be remembered?
BK: I want to be remembered
as a great father, and as someone who inspired people to have integrity
and drive.
KW: What's
up next for you?
BK: I'm shooting a movie
right now with Bruce Willis called The Surrogates.
KW: Well, good
luck with that, and I hope to speak to you again when that gets released.
BK: Cool. Peace.
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